Miscommunication comes in many forms. But most of them are mainly because each individual has their own way of thinking and own way of conveying message. Things that are right for me may not be your cup of tea. We live at the same housing garden doesn't mean we have the same style of living. People are all different.
Today I have learned a few things. Once again this proves my level maturity. There is still a huge room for growth as I think I didn't handle the situation well. Regardless of what I hear, from the first, second or third parties, everyone is having a different storyline, even if the tittle of the story is the same. It is all based on own judgment and analytical thinking.
Perhaps all the while I am having some forms of pre-judgment, so my analytical thinking was bias. Perhaps somebody wanted to convey the wrong message, so to mess up the condition. Perhaps at the end of the day, nobody is doing anything with intention, it was just a miscommunication among human, plus different perceptions in analyzing an incidence.
On top of that, sometimes miscommunication may be arise because someone is caring for another person, but in a different way. This once again comes back to the first point where every human is different. It is important to respect each human as an individual with different kinda thinking. As although we share the same set of genetic materials, but our philosophy of life is largely deviated.
Thus, even if you disagree with one another, or you are trying to express your care to one another, always remember to put respect at the frontline, and no judgment. Things that you disgaree with, things that do not work on you, may not be the same for other individuals. Therefore, do not judge. And by the way, who are you to judge and criticize?
Well, regardless. Regardless of who is right or who is wrong. There are a few main things that I have realized tonight:
1) Learn to respect.
2) Learn not to judge.
3) Learn not to think too much.
4) Learn to be a better woman.
P/S: Once and for all, the past will be remained in the past.
Today I have learned a few things. Once again this proves my level maturity. There is still a huge room for growth as I think I didn't handle the situation well. Regardless of what I hear, from the first, second or third parties, everyone is having a different storyline, even if the tittle of the story is the same. It is all based on own judgment and analytical thinking.
Perhaps all the while I am having some forms of pre-judgment, so my analytical thinking was bias. Perhaps somebody wanted to convey the wrong message, so to mess up the condition. Perhaps at the end of the day, nobody is doing anything with intention, it was just a miscommunication among human, plus different perceptions in analyzing an incidence.
On top of that, sometimes miscommunication may be arise because someone is caring for another person, but in a different way. This once again comes back to the first point where every human is different. It is important to respect each human as an individual with different kinda thinking. As although we share the same set of genetic materials, but our philosophy of life is largely deviated.
Thus, even if you disagree with one another, or you are trying to express your care to one another, always remember to put respect at the frontline, and no judgment. Things that you disgaree with, things that do not work on you, may not be the same for other individuals. Therefore, do not judge. And by the way, who are you to judge and criticize?
Well, regardless. Regardless of who is right or who is wrong. There are a few main things that I have realized tonight:
1) Learn to respect.
2) Learn not to judge.
3) Learn not to think too much.
4) Learn to be a better woman.
P/S: Once and for all, the past will be remained in the past.
3 comments:
1) Learn to respect. - YES! You are only able to learn by that. Respect is a manner of being calm and show no harshness.
2) Learn not to judge. - Observe, learned about the situation of others before you put your thought on others. You must learn to judge. Judge what what to do and not to do.
Initially i wanted to say don't get blind and get cheated. Anyway, judgment is still important in all sense.
3) Learn not to think too much. - Please use your brain and make wise judgement. Don't let your imagination run wild (that's exclusively for SEX), be logic and reasonable. OBSERVE and get a possible conclusion.
4) Learn to be a better woman. - Haha, hahahahaha.
Just be yourself and be kind. I don't mind sewing and stitching, but I don't want to see you studying in French majoring Housekeeping, mademoiselle :P
In all case, learn how to observe, observe and observe, and don't be harsh(show respect). If you need tactical forecasting you can contact me anytime. I can make him your slave through my stategy, muahahaa(Oops, sorry for being over confident, anyway, duit-kopi applies for the service).
Wish you luck on the pathway being an elegant lady.
Make him my slave? LoLx... Sounds interesting... =P
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